Male Chastity Cages

One of the rules to wearing male chastity cages is that the keys are turned over to someone who has been designated as the Key Holder. This person can be a Mistress, Master or a partner. The point is that the men wearing the cages are usually not allowed to keep control of their keys. Typically, it is because they will be sorely tempted to unlock the cage when it becomes uncomfortable or they simply want to be able to get an erection. However, that’s the whole point of these devices; to keep away those random erections. How effective would they be if the men were allowed to be in charge of the keys? Most likely, not very.

Nothing works better than male chastity cages when it comes to keep those pesky erections at bay but that is only true when someone else is in charge of holding the key. On the other hand, there are some situations that might just require the man wearing the cage to also be in charge of the key to it. Men who do not have a partner who can be the Key Holder or are not involved with a Mistress or Master are going to be forced to find other solutions to this dilemma. Many of the men in this group manage to fight off the urge to unlock their cages at random and they do it rather easily.

If you happen to be a part of the men that have no one to hold the keys to their male chastity cages, you will have to learn restraint and self-discipline. Obviously, you will have to be your own Key Holder and you can do just that. There are safes that you can buy that can be set on a timer which allows you to stay on a schedule of sorts as to when your cage can be released.  These work out quite nicely unless you can develop the will to control whipping out that key anytime you want. That is also true if you really want the cage to do its job.

A key part of becoming a member of the chastity community is in the selection of the best male chastity cages for you. While it really isn’t a complicated process, it can be rather frustrating when it comes to deciding exactly what cage to begin with as well as which one to move forward with after that. Once you begin shopping around, you will quickly see that there are quite a few different cages to choose from and many of them will seem to be perfect for you. On the other hand, there will also be plenty of cages that you might just cringe at the thought of using. The most difficult part of it all might just be reconciling your desires with what will work best for you.

One of the most popular styles of male chastity cages involves a miniature cage design that slips right over your penis and is then locked in place. The size of the cages is very important when it comes to getting it right. A cage that turns out to be too small will hurt you in ways best not even thought about. Of course, a cage that is too big is going to be a waste of money because it will simply fall off of your penis and it will do nothing to deter an unwanted or random erection. This is true even if you choose the miniature cage design.

Other popular types of male chastity cages include a sheath style that fits like a sleeve over your penis. Some of these designs have little spikes built into the inside that go a long way to discouraging an erection that is not supposed to be happening. Granted, these are not exactly cages, but they have been known to be highly effective in helping you control when you get an erection. When you think about it, having the sensation of little needle like spikes digging into your penis the harder it gets will make it go down in an instant. Unless, of course, you happen to like the feeling of intense pain. In that case, you will probably want to return to the cage design.

I knew nothing about male chastity cages until I hooked up with my current boyfriend. In fact, I wasn’t even aware of most of the fetishes and different lifestyles that are out there these days until the two of us met. He has really opened my eyes to the world around me and I am happier in my life because of it. Although, when he first told me about wearing one of these cages, I thought he was a nut job. Who in his right mind would force his cock into a small cage to refrain from getting an erection for long periods of time anyway?

As it turns out using these male chastity cages has actually brought our relationship even closer together than you would ever think. I was under the impression that not getting an erection would ruin any kind of sexual aspects of our relationship, but he has shown me that that isn’t true. If anything, our sex life is much more robust than it would have been if he wasn’t wearing one of those cages. At least it has been better than any other relationship I have ever been in, and that is saying a lot.

We have been together for a few years now and I don’t think I could go back to living my life before male chastity cages were brought into it. The thought of living such a life seems like a dream to me that I had finally woke up from and am happy for it. Although I am not the one wearing the cage, I still think that this has a great deal of promise for any couple that might be interested. My boyfriend has repeatedly tried to get me into one of his cages, but I am not ready for something like that although I am sure that one day I will give it a shot just to see what it is all about. After all, it’s only fair to give him a chance at being on the other end of things.

Recently, I discovered a site that offers glass male chastity cages for men. I never would have thought that wearing a glass cage would be all that comfortable, although I guess I can understand the comfort aspect. After all, they do make glass dildos and other such things, which are supposed to be the best choice for fun. But I think it would be really dangerous to be wearing a glass cage if something were to happen to it. Not that I get kicked in the crotch all that often, but if it did happen and the cage broke; I would think that it would be rather painful. Explaining that in a hospital emergency room would not be the highlight of my life.

I guess the glass male chastity cages would be good to use in the bedroom for training or something and not worn out in public. At least I don’t think I could wear one like this out in public. I would be horrified that something would happen to it, and I am sure that everyone around me would pick up on my stress. I would be constantly holding my hands over the cage in the hopes that anything that might start flying toward my crotch would be intercepted by my hands.

Maybe I should stick with the traditional metal or plastic male chastity cages for now. I like the feeling of the cold metal against my cock anyway, and I know that it isn’t going to break if something bad were to happen. I will admit that any guy that would wear a glass cage in public is far manlier than I am at this point in my life. To each his own, I guess. If anyone out there loves wearing a glass cage, then I say more power to them. As long as you are happy with what you are wearing when it comes to chastity, then the better adjusted you are.

There are a lot of different male chastity cages available today and trying to pick one out of the thousands online might seem impossible. This is especially true when it comes to guys looking to get into chastity for the first time. I can tell you that when I first got involved in this particular lifestyle wasn’t all that difficult. The adult store I went to only had two different kinds to choose from and I picked the one that didn’t have the inverted spikes welded into the inside of the cage. It seemed like the best bet at that time, and I am kind of glad I went the way I did.

Today’s male chastity cages offer everything from comfort and lower profiles to extra little toys built in to make them more exciting to wear. I guess it all depends on what kind of control you are looking for or if you just want to have some sexy fun with your partner a couple hours a week. Either way, I would take the time to look around at as many of them as you have time for. You will probably end up changing your mind at least three or four times before you actually purchase one anyway.

I know it seems like a lot to go through just to be able to wear male chastity cages, but it is worth the extra effort. You might be perfectly fine wearing the first one you come across, but you never know what that next design might offer you that is different. Of course this is assuming that you actually have some kind of say in what kind of cage you are wearing. There are plenty of guys wearing these cages because they have to and it is up to the person they are with to determine what style they have. So if you are looking for one that you yourself will be wearing; count yourself lucky in that regard.