There are a lot of different male chastity cages available today and trying to pick one out of the thousands online might seem impossible. This is especially true when it comes to guys looking to get into chastity for the first time. I can tell you that when I first got involved in this particular lifestyle wasn’t all that difficult. The adult store I went to only had two different kinds to choose from and I picked the one that didn’t have the inverted spikes welded into the inside of the cage. It seemed like the best bet at that time, and I am kind of glad I went the way I did.
Today’s male chastity cages offer everything from comfort and lower profiles to extra little toys built in to make them more exciting to wear. I guess it all depends on what kind of control you are looking for or if you just want to have some sexy fun with your partner a couple hours a week. Either way, I would take the time to look around at as many of them as you have time for. You will probably end up changing your mind at least three or four times before you actually purchase one anyway.
I know it seems like a lot to go through just to be able to wear male chastity cages, but it is worth the extra effort. You might be perfectly fine wearing the first one you come across, but you never know what that next design might offer you that is different. Of course this is assuming that you actually have some kind of say in what kind of cage you are wearing. There are plenty of guys wearing these cages because they have to and it is up to the person they are with to determine what style they have. So if you are looking for one that you yourself will be wearing; count yourself lucky in that regard.
Looking at the different male chastity cages that are available online, I have noticed that the basic principal in the designs are the same. They may change materials or styles, but the aspect of having some kind of a cage aspect still remains. Of course you will have some that are cylindrical tubes with holes in the end to really keep you in check but those are for extreme chastity users. I like the fact that the designs aren’t overly changing in functionality all the time. If I am going to be wearing something like this for long periods of time; I don’t want to have to worry about new designs coming out too often.
Now I have noticed that there are some really advanced male chastity cages that are making the rounds lately. Some of these things look a lot more painful to wear than I would like to try personally. I can understand some guys wanting to branch out a bit, but I’m not one of them. I like the more traditional aspect of chastity and will stick to that. But I also like to look at these other advanced designs and imagine what it would be like to give them a try.
If you are new to wearing male chastity cages, you will want to stay away from the more advanced options. I’m not saying that you won’t enjoy them, but they can be rather tricky to get used to. I know I couldn’t get used to wearing some of those designs on a regular basis. But feel free to try them out when you think you are ready for them. Just make sure you have your key holder there with you when you do in case something goes wrong. After all You don’t want to get stuck in something that has inverted teeth poking into your cock.
Using male chastity cages can be quite difficult for some guys out there. I know this because I am an ER nurse and I have seen what some guys have tried. After all, there are warning labels on things like hair dryers for a reason. Being a male nurse that wears a chastity cage makes things a little easier when these guys come in, I think. I can understand the issues they are going through since I rarely tell anyone that I am wearing a cage. I can understand why going to the ER would be the last thing they wanted to do in a situation like that.
Thankfully, there are a lot of guys that can handle wearing male chastity cages just fine. They never end up in the hospital and they don’t have to tell people around them that they are wearing one. They can live their life fully knowing that they are in complete control of their life at all times. That is the main reason that I started wearing a cage. I was tired of having erections for no reason at all and getting an erection while wearing scrubs is not an easy thing to hide.
I have met a lot of well-meaning men in the ER that have made simple mistakes with their male chastity cages. They usually end up getting one that is a bit too small for them and they still try to lock it in place. Unless you know what you are doing, you probably shouldn’t get one that is too small for you. Speaking from experience, this is something that you really need to pay attention to. I won’t go into detail about what happens to these guys, but I will tell you that it isn’t pretty and they are out a decent bit of money as the cage usually has to be cut off and thrown away. Then, there’s the hospital bill combined with humiliation. That is just not pretty.
I met a rather interesting woman not long ago with a very different sort of hobby. She is a collector of male chastity cages and her collection is probably worth hundreds of thousands of dollars; maybe even more than that. She has chastity cages that date back to the very beginning of the first ones ever used and they are all in impeccable condition. What’s more, this lady loves to show them off to her guests as sort of an ice breaker, I suppose you would say. Admittedly, she is quite proud of the cages she has assembled over the years, and she has every right to be so.
As a guest at a dinner party this woman was hosting, I was privileged to see her collection of male chastity cages. Other dinner guests that night had seen the collection previously but they found it so amazing that they seemed to be just as excited as if they were viewing it for the first time. There is an entire room in her home that is devoted to only these cages. Some are locked behind crystal clear glass cases and others are on display for the express purpose of being held and played with so as to understand how they worked. Actually, all of us seemed to find the cages that we were drawn to the most and we had a great time experimenting with them while our hostess took great pains to give us details in how they operated.
Following dinner, there was a special surprise in store. A Mistress and Master along with a couple of submissive males provided a demonstration for us that showed even more clearly precisely how these male chastity cages worked. There was not a man in that room that was not crossing his legs in either empathy pain or in excitement. I was one of the men that found myself pretty aroused by this demonstration. In fact, I was so aroused that I stayed behind after the other guests had left so that I might speak privately to our hostess. We now have a standing appointment twice a week for my chastity training. I get to see these cages up close and personal now and could not be happier.
One of the first things that all men must do when they decide to become chaste is to find male chastity cages that will not only be effective but will also be nice to look at. Men that are novices to this lifestyle may not be aware that these cages exist in super sexy styles that will allow them to be held in check while also appearing alluring to their Key Holder. Now, while not all Key Holders have a sexual relationship with their charges; most of them hold a sexual component of some sort and would enjoy seeing cages that look enticing. Therefore, many chastity cages are created with the idea in mind for them to look sexy while also making sure that the men wearing them behave themselves.
Wearing male chastity cages can be difficult enough for the first time, but wearing one that you don’t want to even look at is even harder. You want something that you can lock over your cock and think “man, that cage looks sexy on me.” It will make the fact that you have to wear that cage for days on end even easier for you. How long do you think you could wear something like this if you thought it was hideous to look at? Chances are that it would not be all that long.
Take your time in finding the right male chastity cages so that you can be proud of what you are doing. If you are proud of the cages that you are wearing than you Key Holder will be proud of the effort you are putting into this lifestyle. That can bring you all kinds of special rewards and that is what it is all about. Go out there and find the sexiest cage you can find so that you can hold your head up high and show the world that wearing a chastity cage doesn’t have to be all about the punishment of not getting an erection any more.
Most men do not like talking about small cocks especially if they happen to have one which is the case for me. Having a very tiny penis and needing to shop for new male chastity cages presents some problems. I can be embarrassing to shop for male chastity cages to begin with but add in the fact that my shaft is less than 1” flaccid and not very large hard makes it completely embarrassing. I have been to shops that sell cock cages and more than once the girls working there did not believe how small I was and asked to see it. Once a girl took a selfie with her face next to my very small cock and sent it to all her friends. The men are not much better once a guy working in an adult store in Los Angeles did not believe how small I was either and asked to see it. He looked and told me I might as well become a T-girl because my cock was too small to cage or to make a woman happy, this is something my girlfriend would disagree with. The last straw was having another man in a different store measure me for a custom cock cage. He said he has made them this small before though I might be as small as he has ever seen. He wanted me to get hard to make sure he had all the measurements. I could not get aroused so he bent down and started sucking on it. There was no point in stopping once he had started but I have found many men assume I am gay just because my penis is so small. How does that make any sense?
Continued next Male Chastity Cages post.
Men that are entering the chastity lifestyle for the first time are going to need male chastity cages so that they can be trained the right way. After all, it is rather difficult to train for male chastity without a cage. Unless you simply wrap your cock with duct tape, which is not suggested. You can seriously hurt yourself trying to remove that tape if you are not careful. That is why there are cages available for guys that want to take control over their lives and keep that little cock of theirs out of trouble.
What style of male chastity cages should a guy be looking into for his very first one? Whoever is training you should help you in picking out the perfect one for your needs. But if you haven’t found a trainer just yet and you want to get a feel for things before training, then you are going to need a cage that won’t be that hard to use. You would be surprised at how difficult some of the more advanced cages can actually be for some guys. You will want to stay away from them and look for a beginner’s cage that will be easy to put on and take off.
After looking around online and reading about all the different male chastity cages that are available, you will want to pick the one that suits your needs the best. Some are expensive while others are going to be more reasonable. You need to think about that as well. You may want to go with something a bit cheaper at first to make sure this is something you are truly interested in. It would not make you happy to spend a lot of money only to find out that you can’t stand wearing a chastity cage. Once you have your perfect cage, it’s only a matter of training before you can truly enjoy your life again.
I have just gotten involved in wearing mens chastity cages and can’t believe how fantastic they are. I never really understood what the big deal with male chastity was until I started seeing sites selling these chastity cages popping up. I simply had to learn more about them and the more I learned the more I wanted to buy my own cage and try it out. Of course, I really had no idea what I was getting myself into, but that didn’t stop me from picking out my very first cage and giving it a shot.
I will say that putting my male chastity cages on for the first time was a bit awkward for me. I really had no idea what I was doing and, being the typical man, I figured that I didn’t need to use any kind of instructions. It only took me about twenty minutes before I realized that following the directions that came with the cage would be a smart thing to do. So I went about digging said instructions out of the trash. It was also a lot more comfortable to put the cage on after I read the instructions thoroughly. That’s just a head up for all those guys that are like me and think they are too manly at times.
Now that I have been wearing these male chastity cages for a while, I have to say that I look at life in a completely different way. I used to think about nothing except sex all the time. Now, though, I find myself thinking about all the other things in life that I can experience. It’s really an eye opening experience to have something like this in my life. You can have that same enlightenment, too, but remember that getting morning wood can feel devastatingly painful if you aren’t careful. I would suggest not wearing it all night until you are absolutely ready to do so. Sort of work your way into it unless you want to get a professional to help you get started. That can actually help more than you know.
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