Male Chastity Cages

I have a few male chastity cages that I like to wear as often as possible but I am always looking for more. I think I enjoy searching for new designs more than I actually enjoy wearing the damn things anymore. Every time I see something I have not come across in the past, I immediately think that I need it for some reason. Then, I spend some time trying to figure out what I do not necessarily need so that I can afford a new cage to wear for a few months. It may sound like I am obsessed or something, but I think of it as more of a hobby that makes my life much better.

The only bad thing about loving male chastity cages as much as I do is that there are always new designs being created. I do not mean that it is bad that these designs are being offered to guys like me but in the fact that I am always finding new ones that I have to choose from. Every time I go to a site that has new cages, I end up spending a good amount of my free time looking over the cages that are there and that means I do not have enough time to do much of anything else.

Of course that does not really bother me all that much because I can always make more time if I find that to be necessary. As long as I am wearing one of my many male chastity cages, I will be more than happy with the time that I have to scrape together to do other things in my life. Besides, wearing my cages is what makes my life so good these days so I should put as much time into finding new ones as possible if I want to continue to live this happy go lucky lifestyle that I have chosen for myself. And I do so love variety.

I have not worn any male chastity cages that I thought were overly comfortable the first time I ever wore them. I compare it to putting on ski boots for the first time. You have to learn how to walk in them since your ankles do not move and all that. I always end up walking a bit funny when I first put on a new cage just because of how they are designed and the types of pants I like to wear. Keep that in mind if you are planning to go out in public shortly after locking it in place. Some people may think there is something wrong with you just by the way you are walking.

I also have to point out that you should not try to over correct the way you are walking while wearing these male chastity cages. Trying to correct the way you are walking will usually make you look like a complete fool to strangers on the street not to mention alert others that you have something a little different on underneath your clothes. Just go with the flow and move in ways that cause you the least amount of discomfort. After a while you will get used to the way the cage fits and you won’t even notice it anymore. All you have to do is go about your day as normal.

 I never get to use my real cock. After all it is tiny.

Of course this all depends on what type of male chastity cages you are planning to wear. There are some people in the world that I won’t even try to wear around simply because of the way they are designed. I probably could not walk around my living room comfortably let alone walk down the street to the club. These are things that you have to consider when trying out a new lifestyle like this, especially one that requires you to lock your cock up inside a small metal cage for months on end. It can be a bit challenging for new guys to even look that far into the future, but it is something you will definitely need to do at some point. Go ahead and try something a bit different.

When it comes to entering the chaste lifestyle, male chastity cages can make that transition so much easier. You might wonder why a tiny cage will make it easier to follow all of the rules involved in being a man in living chaste but it really makes more sense than it sounds at first. To begin with, these cages go a long way in helping men to control random erections. They actually are miniature cages and the little bars start to dig in when the penis begins to become erect. This will, naturally, discourage an erection along with the desire to have one. While it is not really painful, these little bars will definitely cause enough discomfort to remove all thoughts of sex rom a man’s mind and body. The only exception to this rule is the fact that there are men who enjoy pain. In those cases, other things will need to be used.

Male chastity cages come in the form of tiny little bird cages except that these cages do not hold birds. Instead, they surround penises. There is also a tiny lock with a small key that will keep this cage locked around the penis. The key is then turned over to a trusted person called the Key Holder. This person maintains possession of the key and makes the decision of when the cage can be unlocked and for how long. Being let out of that cage is considered to be a reward for pleasing the Key Holder by doing something he has been told to do and by doing it well. This is also a great way to train a new man in the ways of living in chastity.

While there are many methods to train a man in chastity, the male chastity cages are among the easiest for both the submissive man and dominant partner. They fit simply enough and provide the restraint needed to prevent erections with only minimal discomfort unless, of course, the men keep trying to misbehave. If that happens, the Key Holder will be ready to mete out some punishment until the submissive male understands the rules a little better. Since the cage can be locked on and taken off so easily, it is one of the simpler methods of chastity training and quite popular with professional trainers and dominant partners.

For many men who enter the chaste community and lifestyle, male chastity cages are a large part of the way that these men live. Not all use these little cages in order to be kept in line, but a large number of them do. An important thing to ask yourself is whether or not you are ready for these cages to be placed around your penis. Some men love them and consider these cages to be a very important part of their training as well as insuring that they behave and do as they are commanded by their dominant partner. There are small locks along with tiny keys that accompany these cages. The key is turned over to the Key Holder or dominant partner so that the men do not remove the cages at will.

Male chastity cages are in place on men in the chaste community in order to keep them from attaining random erections. Those erections tend to get plenty of men in trouble all the time. Therefore, when a man is wearing one of these cages, it does not matter whether or not his penis is trying to grow. The little bars on the cage will prevent this erection from happening by digging into the growing penis. The discomfort that is brought about by those little bars tend to discourage the penis from getting hard. Most of the time, the urge to even want to have an erection is taken away by these cages.

Many men fear male chastity cages even though they have no real reason to do so. These are usually the guys who are afraid to give up control of their sexual decisions. They know that once those cages are encircling their penises, all bets are off. The only way that they will be having erections of their own choosing is if the cage happens to be too big for their penises. Then those erections can happen at will and even be satisfied in spite of the cage. If you happen to be one of those men who fear chastity cages, then you most likely are not ready to wear one or ready to enter the chastity life. When you develop the complete trust that you need to be chaste, then you will be ready to wear a chastity cage.

One of the great things about wearing male chastity cages is the feeling of being in control all the time. But there are moments in my life when I do not want to feel like I am in control. I want to feel like I have given control to someone else and that means I have to find someone to entrust with my cage key. The funny thing is that I will usually give it to someone who does not know what it is. I do not want them to think I am weird for wearing a cage, but I want the excitement of handing them a key and telling them to hide it from me.

Most of the time they think it is funny but I am sure that if they knew it was for my male chastity cages; they would probably not want anything to do with it. I like having this kind of secret from them even if it means I cannot get my key back any time soon. I actually gave it to a co-worker and they went to China for three weeks on a business trip. I had no idea how to contact them. That was pretty interesting seeing as how I was not sure how long they would actually be gone for that trip.

Other times, I will give it to a neighbor or something just to see how long I can wear my male chastity cages before asking for the key back. I have even been known to lock it up in a safe deposit box at the bank downtown just so I was not enticed to use it. Sometimes, you have to play these little games when you are all by yourself. I have even thought about mailing the key to friends and family in other states with a note telling them to mail the key back in a month. I think that would be really interesting. Of course, that might also backfire on me as they might feel that that I have totally lost my mind.

Everyone who is involved in the chastity lifestyles knows that male chastity cages have been around for a very long time. This device first called a “self-protector” was patented by Daniel P. Cook who lived in Hartford, Connecticut. The patent was executed in 1870 apparently to be used on Renaissance paintings of naked kids. The way that it works is to use a band that circles the body right about the lips. The band is then locked together by a tiny padlock or some other device. Then they key to the padlock is handed over to the Key Holder who retains charge of it only using it to unlock the device when the submissive has earned that right or for cleaning.

To show how far people have come during this day and age, it is interesting to look at the type of male chastity cages invented by a woman, no less. Ellen E. Perkins made her proposal of a type of sexual armor in 1907. Her reason behind this is because she felt that masturbation was the most common reason for insanity, feeble mindedness and imbecility particularly in young men. She was positive that her device would put a stop to all of this by making it impossible for masturbation to happen. Obviously, in looking back all of those years ago, it is clear that people such as Daniel Cook and Ellen Perkins were uneducated and narrow minded about sexual health and gratification. Thankfully, knowledge pertaining to sexual practices have become much more advanced currently. That is why male chastity is a choice today rather than a forced action.

Male chastity cages have evolved dramatically since their inception just as the purpose for them has become much different. In one way, they are still meant to curtail self-pleasure at random. On the other hand, men willingly wear a design of these cages that are sexier and more comfortable. They still resemble cages and they still have tiny padlocks on them. They also continue to be controlled by a Key Holder, but the men who are in these types of relationships because they want to be and feel that the rewards earned by wearing the cages are more than worth the willingness to wear them and please their Key Holders.

Male chastity cages are the primary items used in a chastity relationship. There are some pretty good reasons for this but you will also find that many people do not see the need for these devices in order to have a good chastity lifestyle. Those with objections are usually the same types of personalities that really should not be a part of the chastity community because they are still trying to control things in their lives. These are typically the men who just think they understand what chastity is and that they want it to be a part of their lives. In reality, they have no clue what it means to be chaste and will never live successfully as a chaste male.

The main reason that the dominant partner chooses to use male chastity cages is because they are the most effective of all chastity devices. These are actually miniature cages that fit over a man’s penis. They have little locks that come with a key which is turned over to the dominant partner known as the Key Holder. Cages discourage random erections in men, or any type of erection for that matter. The little bars of the tiny cages dig into the penis when it tries to become erect and causes the desire to disappear. Therefore, the erection goes away and the penis becomes flaccid once more. They go a long way in keeping a man in line and helping him to retain his chastity.

The most important thing to remember with male chastity cages to keep them effective is that they must be the correct size for the man who will be wearing them. For instance, a man with a large penis does not need to have a cage that is too small. If they can be put over the penis at all, there is every chance that the man will suffer some dangerous damage when an erection tries to occur. On the other hand, a cage that is too large will not be effective at all. The cage will most likely simply fall off of the penis but if it stays on after all, an erection can easily happen because the bars will not be close enough to stop it. In the end, though, these cages can keep a chastity relationship on track and are actually quite important to the success of the relationship overall.