Quite possibly some of the most confusing sex toys around are male chastity cages. The people who understand these items are typically the ones who use them either non-frequently or frequently. Most of the time, the cages are used in a relationship where there is a submissive partner and a dominant one. The dominant partner has control of the key that unlocks the cage once it is placed around the penis. This is done so that the submissive does not get any special privileges or undeserved rewards by being able to gain sexual release. His dominant partner is the one who is in charge of making those decisions.
While there are many benefits of wearing male chastity cages, one of those at the top of the list is the submissive will not be able to fool around and enjoy some one night stands. Yes, that means that the cages are worn all the time unless the Key Holder sees that there is a reason to remove it. One of those reasons, of course, have something to do with good health. If the cage and penis are not cleansed properly and often enough, those are definite breeding grounds for infection. I am quite sure that the submissive would not enjoy that sort of infection. That is why there are rules to follow.
Another benefit of wearing male chastity cages is learning the lesson of not being selfish and self-centered. When you are wearing a chastity cage, it is almost a definite thing that your dominant partner will be pleased as many times as he or she wants before you will be allowed to remove that cage and gain some happiness for yourself. That is why you will want to work your hardest to please your Key Holder. You will get your own reward in the end, the harder you work and the happier that you make your dominant partner, the better your own reward will be.
Most people believe that male chastity training is something that can be undergone or not and that it does not really have to be done for a successful relationship. That is actually not exactly true. Being born chaste is not something that happens to a man. It is something that is developed by many things such as environment, temperament and emotions. It typically is something that is learned through life experiences, some beginning even as a small child. Events that occur to a man throughout his life will always decide what sort of person he is going to be as an adult. Many men are lead in the direction of becoming chaste. This means they grow into submissive adults.
Now, on the other hand, there may be men who simply are born with a submissive gene. These men will easily become chaste as they mature but it does not matter how they get to that point. Male chastity training can only make things easier and more pleasant for these men which is the main reason to indulge in some training. Probably the most benefit that can be gained by training is that men can then enter into a chaste relationship knowing what to expect. Oddly enough, men who do not know what is going to happen once they are in the relationships do not feel that they need any training. The majority of the time these guys find out that they could not have been more wrong.
The good news is that it is never too late to turn things around in your life and find someone you resonate with to conduct some male chastity training for you. Taking this training will certainly not hurt you in any way. It is also a way to decide if this is truly the life for you or if you should perhaps look in another direction. A lot of men find that they do not want to live that way all the time. They choose to live chastely only part of the time, like on the weekends or holidays. The rest of the time, they live what is considered to be a “normal” lifestyle. So they get to have the best of both worlds.
I have tried a lot of weird things in my life but nothing quite as strange as wearing these male chastity cages that have become so popular lately. Now I should probably start out by saying that I wasn’t so much deciding to wear it as I was fooled into trying one on and then left with it. You see I have some female friends that are rather funny at times and they love playing practical jokes. Well it turns out that one night about six months ago I was the target of one of these well thought out jokes but it turns out that I actually liked it a little too much.
I learned a valuable lesson about myself that night. Actually it was more than just one lesson that I learned after I figured out that I really did enjoy wearing male chastity cages. But the first and probably most important thing I learned was not to drink too much around these girls because bad things will eventually happen. Once I passed out they slapped a cage on me and hid the key. Then they let me walk around all day trying to figure out how I got into the damn thing and they kept saying I was so drunk that I didn’t remember putting it on myself.
After I learned that they put me into one of these male chastity cages they wouldn’t give me the key to get back out of it. They kept telling me that I had to be punished for the way I was acting and then they would laugh and walk away. After the third or maybe fourth day I stopped asking them for it and started enjoying the feeling of having it on. A month later they gave me the key but I put it up for another week before actually taking the cage off. I told them I threw it away but I was actually wearing it while I was telling them that so I guess you could say that their cruel little joke backfired on them in a way.
Once you have tried male chastity cages you will never think the same way about your life again. I used to think that any guy that put a cage on like this was a total freak. I thought that there must be something wrong with the guys to willing lock their cocks up inside of some weird little cage and that was not something I was ever going to do. I put it out of my mind and went on with my life without thinking about anything like that and I was very happy.
Move forward about ten years and I find myself wearing men’s chastity cages every day. After telling myself that I would never wear anything like this and then suddenly finding out that this is exactly what was missing in my life makes me sound like the freak now. You see I had an ex that decided it would be fun to get me drunk and put me into one of these cages as a joke. I didn’t exactly find it all that funny when I woke up though and there was definitely hell to pay for what I was put into. That is actually the reason that we broke up and I have no regrets over that move.
The strange thing is that after a few months without the male chastity cages I found myself constantly thinking about what it was like while I was wearing it. Now I wasn’t happy at all but I admit that it felt a little good to have that cage in place. So I decided to buy one for myself and give it a shot willingly. I think giving myself permission to try something like this out was the most important aspect of this as I didn’t feel like I was locked in a cage. Waking up and having one in place just made me feel like I had lost all control of the situation and that wasn’t something I ever wanted to go through again. Thankfully I have grown accustomed to it and I now know that guys wearing these cages aren’t all freaks, although a few of them might be but in a very good way.
If you aren’t wearing male chastity cages then you have no idea what you are missing out on. That is the exact same thing that I was told about three years ago and for some reason it stuck with me. I was trying my best to ignore it but something in the back of my mind kept telling me that I needed to find out what I was actually missing in my life because apparently it was important. It only took me four months before I deciding to look for my own cage and I am glad that I did now.
Thinking that I was missing out on something is what got me interested in wearing my first male chastity cages but finding out what it was that I was actually missing is what made me continue to wear them. I had no idea what it was going to be like strapping one of those cages in place but once I did I completely understand what that person had told me only a few months earlier. I indeed was missing out on something and I could feel it almost immediately from the time I locked that cage in place.
I’m not going to sit here and tell you what it was that I was missing out on because I want you to go out and find your own male chastity cages. I want you to lock one in place and see for yourself that this missing aspect of your life will finally be found. I have a feeling that it will be different for every guy that puts one on but somehow we all know what it will turn out to be. It’s a very strange sensation at first but I can tell you that once you put it on you will feel that your life is finally complete and that is what I was happy about the most.
One of the best decisions I have ever made was the one where I started wearing male chastity cages. This is something that I had wanted to do for a very long time even though I was not exactly sure what it was until I saw my first cage. I knew that I needed something to manage my erections but I was not exactly sure how I should do that. As soon as I saw that first cage, though, I knew that it was what I had been looking for and that I had to buy it immediately.
Now I was not exactly sure how I was supposed to wear one of these male chastity cages, but I knew that I had to at least try. There was something about the design that called to my soul and I knew if I did not try, then I would regret it for the rest of my life. So I went ahead and bought one to see if I could actually get the thing on and what it would do for me. I was surprised at how easy it was for me to get it on and how great it felt once I locked it in place. I truly was not expecting the ease that I felt in the cage for the first time, but I was thankful that I did.
There might be some guys in the world that are interested in wearing male chastity cages but, like me, they are not sure if they can get along with them all that well. I will tell you that it did not take but five minutes before I was comfortable in my cage although I am sure that is not exactly normal for everyone. Some guys might want to take some time to get used to their cages while others who are like me can simply lock it in and head on out the door, although I do suggest putting pants on first. Those cages are great for some things but not so much for covering things in public.
Not all male chastity cages are created equally and doing a quick check online will show you the truth in this. There are a lot of sites that offer cheap alternatives to real cages, which you should stay away from at all costs. I highly recommend buying your cages from reputable sites if you are going to buy them online and do your best to not save a lot of money on them. I have been suckered into buying one of those cheap cages in the past, and it was the worst decision of my life. It almost made me give up chastity altogether, after a brief visit to the emergency room, that is.
High quality male chastity cages will fit you perfectly and will not cause any discomfort other than having your cock locked inside of it. But the cheaper ones will usually have some kind of defect in them that can cause anything from extreme pain to a visit to the hospital. I just happened to get the latter one of those and it was not fun. The cage I bought had a bur inside the ring that goes around the base of the cock. On top of that, the lock did not work right and I could not get the key to work.
After seeing a decent amount of blood, I decided that I will pay more money for my male chastity cages if I was ever able to get that one off and keep my manhood in one peace. Needless to say, the doctor was surprised to see why I was there and I was able to have it removed safely. I immediately threw that cage away and, after a couple of week’s recovery, I bought another one that was of better quality. I have not had any issues with that one and I am pretty sure that I will not have any with others that I might buy in the future.
Male chastity cages are among the most popular of chastity equipment put into use by couples and/or single men who are engaged in the chaste lifestyle. Nothing seems to be easier to use and more effective than these cages, which is mostly why they are chosen most often to be used to keep the submissive men in line and keep them from misbehaving. They also come in various designs and are made from various materials. Most of the cages, however, tend to be crafted from different types of metals. This is especially true of the miniature cage design. These resemble tiny bird cages with small doors that are locked with little keys.
These male chastity cages go a long way in helping the dominant partner in a relationship to keep the submissive male under control. Nothing works better than a small cage locked around a male’s penis. Of course it must be the perfect size for the penis or it will not work so well. For instance, a cage that is too large will not be effective at all in preventing a random erection or an erection that happens without permission from the dominant partner. There will be plenty of room in a cage that is too big for an erection to occur. On the other hand, a cage that is too small can cause some damage to the penis; even damage that turns out to be permanent.
The main use of male chastity cages is in training the submissive male to do as he is told. Once the training is finished, the cages will still be worn no matter how well he has learned how to take orders and follow instructions. He will be allowed to remove the cage on a regular basis in order to clean both his penis and the cage. This prevents any infection from beginning on the penis or surrounding area. One last note is that the cages can be put into use at any time that the submissive partner decides to cheat and enter into a one night stand or a random encounter in a club or something. Men should always remember this little fact.
I have a few male chastity cages that I like to wear as often as possible but I am always looking for more. I think I enjoy searching for new designs more than I actually enjoy wearing the damn things anymore. Every time I see something I have not come across in the past, I immediately think that I need it for some reason. Then, I spend some time trying to figure out what I do not necessarily need so that I can afford a new cage to wear for a few months. It may sound like I am obsessed or something, but I think of it as more of a hobby that makes my life much better.
The only bad thing about loving male chastity cages as much as I do is that there are always new designs being created. I do not mean that it is bad that these designs are being offered to guys like me but in the fact that I am always finding new ones that I have to choose from. Every time I go to a site that has new cages, I end up spending a good amount of my free time looking over the cages that are there and that means I do not have enough time to do much of anything else.
Of course that does not really bother me all that much because I can always make more time if I find that to be necessary. As long as I am wearing one of my many male chastity cages, I will be more than happy with the time that I have to scrape together to do other things in my life. Besides, wearing my cages is what makes my life so good these days so I should put as much time into finding new ones as possible if I want to continue to live this happy go lucky lifestyle that I have chosen for myself. And I do so love variety.
I have not worn any male chastity cages that I thought were overly comfortable the first time I ever wore them. I compare it to putting on ski boots for the first time. You have to learn how to walk in them since your ankles do not move and all that. I always end up walking a bit funny when I first put on a new cage just because of how they are designed and the types of pants I like to wear. Keep that in mind if you are planning to go out in public shortly after locking it in place. Some people may think there is something wrong with you just by the way you are walking.
I also have to point out that you should not try to over correct the way you are walking while wearing these male chastity cages. Trying to correct the way you are walking will usually make you look like a complete fool to strangers on the street not to mention alert others that you have something a little different on underneath your clothes. Just go with the flow and move in ways that cause you the least amount of discomfort. After a while you will get used to the way the cage fits and you won’t even notice it anymore. All you have to do is go about your day as normal.
I never get to use my real cock. After all it is tiny.
Of course this all depends on what type of male chastity cages you are planning to wear. There are some people in the world that I won’t even try to wear around simply because of the way they are designed. I probably could not walk around my living room comfortably let alone walk down the street to the club. These are things that you have to consider when trying out a new lifestyle like this, especially one that requires you to lock your cock up inside a small metal cage for months on end. It can be a bit challenging for new guys to even look that far into the future, but it is something you will definitely need to do at some point. Go ahead and try something a bit different.