One of the great things about wearing male chastity cages is the feeling of being in control all the time. But there are moments in my life when I do not want to feel like I am in control. I want to feel like I have given control to someone else and that means I have to find someone to entrust with my cage key. The funny thing is that I will usually give it to someone who does not know what it is. I do not want them to think I am weird for wearing a cage, but I want the excitement of handing them a key and telling them to hide it from me.
Most of the time they think it is funny but I am sure that if they knew it was for my male chastity cages; they would probably not want anything to do with it. I like having this kind of secret from them even if it means I cannot get my key back any time soon. I actually gave it to a co-worker and they went to China for three weeks on a business trip. I had no idea how to contact them. That was pretty interesting seeing as how I was not sure how long they would actually be gone for that trip.
Other times, I will give it to a neighbor or something just to see how long I can wear my male chastity cages before asking for the key back. I have even been known to lock it up in a safe deposit box at the bank downtown just so I was not enticed to use it. Sometimes, you have to play these little games when you are all by yourself. I have even thought about mailing the key to friends and family in other states with a note telling them to mail the key back in a month. I think that would be really interesting. Of course, that might also backfire on me as they might feel that that I have totally lost my mind.