Once I started wearing male chastity cages, I felt that the world would judge me if they ever found out about them. I did everything I could to make sure this secret of mine stayed hidden from the world around me. It took so much out of me that I fell into a deep depression mixed with a little paranoia and that was not fun at all. Every time I stepped out in public, I felt like someone was going to look down and see that I was wearing one of these cages. I almost became a recluse, never leaving the house for the fear of what might happen.
After a few years, I realized that wearing male chastity cages is not something that I needed to keep secret from the world. Granted, I was not going to go around and tell every stranger on the street that I was wearing a cage. But I did not have to worry about all these people finding out that I was wearing one. It turns out that many people in the world either do not care that a guy is wearing something like this or does not know that these things even exist. That made me feel quite a bit better about my personal situation, as you can imagine.
I have learned that wearing my male chastity cages is not something that I should be ashamed of but rather something I should be celebrating. Again, I am not running around naked and pointing at my crotch, but neither am I going to keep it hidden from people if they do notice. Maybe I can help them gain some knowledge on the subject if they happen to ask me about it. If no one pays any attention to my cage, then I am just going to live my life the way I see fit and stop worrying all the time. Once I started thinking in this way, the stress melted away and I was free to go out in public and have fun again.