The Many Looks of Male Chastity Cages

 

When do men start thinking of using male chastity cages? Well, some men start the fetish as soon as they start having sex. Some men are lead there over time through a repetitious sexual relationship. Either type has discovered something wonderful, though. The use of male chastity cages can be very erotic and exciting under the right circumstances. All you need is a sexual partner who understands your deep, dark need to be dominated and controlled. Submission is an ultimate form of trust and can make a man feel almost safe, even while enduring punishment. If you are interested in this kinky kind of sex play, you need male chastity cages. When it comes to cock cages, there are all kinds of styles, colors, and materials. Some can be a clear, hard plastic. Other cock cages can be metal and ribbed. Some black, some silver, some of them are a solid cover over your cock. Regardless of your preference, there is surely a style to match.

It’s not like male chastity cages are meant to be comfortable, but size does matter when picking out a style. Most men are small while in a flaccid state; however, other men are showers, not growers, and require more space for their cages, even while limp. The fully enclosed cages are fine for men who are thinner and shorter while limp. The ribbed, metal cages may be a better pick for girthier, longer cocks. Most male chastity cages will let you pick sizes when you order them, but make sure you double check. It’s fun to play around with a cock cage, but it’s a waste of money if your penis is too big to lock it.

Some male chastity cages are also decorated in different shapes. There are ones that are designed to look like dragons or horses. There is almost an artistic quality to the designs of modern cock cages. Even in the bedroom, you can have a personalized look applied to your cock to add some personality to your sexual bondage experiences.

Being Cautious Male Chastity Cages

 

Not all male chastity cages are created equally and doing a quick check online will show you the truth in this. There are a lot of sites that offer cheap alternatives to real cages, which you should stay away from at all costs. I highly recommend buying your cages from reputable sites if you are going to buy them online and do your best to not save a lot of money on them. I have been suckered into buying one of those cheap cages in the past, and it was the worst decision of my life. It almost made me give up chastity altogether, after a brief visit to the emergency room, that is.

High quality male chastity cages will fit you perfectly and will not cause any discomfort other than having your cock locked inside of it. But the cheaper ones will usually have some kind of defect in them that can cause anything from extreme pain to a visit to the hospital. I just happened to get the latter one of those and it was not fun. The cage I bought had a bur inside the ring that goes around the base of the cock. On top of that, the lock did not work right and I could not get the key to work.

After seeing a decent amount of blood, I decided that I will pay more money for my male chastity cages if I was ever able to get that one off and keep my manhood in one peace. Needless to say, the doctor was surprised to see why I was there and I was able to have it removed safely. I immediately threw that cage away and, after a couple of week’s recovery, I bought another one that was of better quality. I have not had any issues with that one and I am pretty sure that I will not have any with others that I might buy in the future.

The Necessity for Male Chastity Cages

 

Unless you are involved in the chastity lifestyle, chances are good that you have no idea what male chastity cages are and what their purpose is. On the other hand, these cages are quite well-known and popular within this specialized community. The cages have a specific purpose for those people that live a chaste life and it makes that life so much simpler to be a part of. Nothing is more effective in keeping men chaste than cages and this if true for many reasons. However, there is one specific reason that makes cages so effective.

That one thing is that male chastity cages are made in the form of miniature cages with tiny locks and keys. They are made to fit over a man’s penis and then are locked into place. This means that, once they are locked, the cages cannot be removed without the use of the keys that fit them. These keys are turned over to individuals known as Key Holders and the men cannot have the cages removed without the permission of the Key Holders. The great thing about chastity cages is that the men wearing them cannot have those random erections that will tempt them to head into club restrooms with strangers for impromptu sex or even a quick solo experience. Men wearing these cages are not going to misbehave.

Male chastity cages are meant not only for training submissives but also for keeping them on track when it comes to sexual pleasure. After all, chastity means that the submissive male does not get to control anything in his life, especially his sexual encounters. So those cages are a vital part of making sure that these guys stick to the rules. When they have earned the reward of taking off their cages, their Key Holders will let them know. Otherwise, they continue to keep them in place and continue trying to do everything in the world to please their Mistresses or Masters. That is when the necessity of chastity cages is really recognized.

Why I Choose Male Chastity Cages

 

Something about male chastity cages always scared me when I first found them online. Some of them look so brutal that I couldn’t imagine why any guy out there would want to wear something like this. I thought that only guys looking for self-punishment or torture would be willing to sacrifice putting something like this on and attempting to live their life. Yet I was intrigued that so many different designs were available online which meant there were a lot of guys out there willing to go through all of this and there had to be a reason for it. I wanted to know what that reason was.

I came to the conclusion that I would have to buy my own male chastity cages in order to figure this little conundrum out and that is what I did. I bought three different cages in the hopes that I would finally figure out why so many guys were willing to put themselves through such torture and be happy about it. The first one I tried was considered a basic design used by first time chastity men. It was easy to get on and I could understand why guys would want to wear it as it was somewhat comfortable.

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The second of the male chastity cages I bought was considered intermediate. This one wasn’t as comfortable as the first but it wasn’t all that bad. It was a little more difficult to put together but I could see wearing it for a bit of time. The last cage I tried was so far beyond what I was ready for that I couldn’t even get it locked into place. Those little barbs on the inside made it impossible to feel comfortable in and that is when I went back to the first one. I plan on wearing all of them as a challenge and I will work up to that last one if it kills me. Now I can see why so many guys like them.

 

Metal male chastity cages

 

 

Call me old fashioned but if I am shopping for male chastity cages I want them to be metal and able to last for years. I like the feel of having my penis locked away in a metal cage with my keyholder controlling when to set it free, let it get hard and even when it is touched. I find that metal male chastity cages work best. Most of the designs are much harder to purposely remove and escape from when passions run high. Having my penis covered in metal keeps me from playing with it, having someone else play with it or even see it. The only thing exposed are my balls and I never play with them because it can be painful to get aroused wearing a cock cage. I know there are many nice plastic male chastity cages and it is a very personal choice that most keyholders make for their slaves. I also understand that many men and women play with cock cages for sexual adventures. I get it. The Fifty Shades of Grey thing. Nothing is out of bounds between consenting adults hell it even seems like fisting is mainstream. That said I am going to stick with metal. There is nothing like the feel of a new stainless steel cock cage being fitted on for the first time.

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Holiday Decorations for Your Male Chastity Cages

 

Something that is a bit quirky for the holidays that Key Holders might decide to do for their submissives is to decorate their male chastity cages. This is directed at the Key Holders primarily because the submissives are not going to be allowed to take it upon themselves to decorate their cages. For one thing, they would need to obtain permission for their cages to be decorated and that permission might be hard to get. On the other hand, the Key Holders might just allow this decoration project to happen as long as the submissives are decorating as they are instructed. However, once the process gets under way and is understood by everyone; it is something that can be done for all holidays and/or special occasions.

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To begin with, it can be rather simple to decorate male chastity cages in the theme of Thanksgiving and Christmas. Cutout turkeys can be created and attached to the cages in a cute and festive manner. Christmas can bring all sorts of new ideas. Tiny little ornaments, much like charms that are bought for bracelets and necklaces, can be hung from the bars of the cages. Some careful planning might even allow some tiny twinkling lights to be attached to the cages. Just imagine how that would look especially in the dark. Halloween can have witches, ghosts, goblins and all sorts of other little homemade creatures can be added to make those cages a little mysterious and spooky.

It is very possible that there are some Key Holders in the world that might have already begun the practice of adorning the male chastity cages of their submissives. Those are some very imaginative and creative Key Holders, too. What is even more fun to add to this process is to instruct the submissives to show off their new decorated cages. This can be done at private parties given by the Key Holders or simply at home when guests arrive. Of course, the guests will need to know ahead of time that the submissive does, indeed, wear a chastity cage and what that lifestyle is all about. Otherwise, they will be rather shocked when a fully naked man with tiny twinkling lights adorning his penis answers the door.

Male Chastity Cages Just for the Fun of It

 

Male chastity cages are typically used by men in the chastity lifestyle. They are not usually meant to be used for fun but, lately, it seems that this is one of the purposes that have been granted to these cages. If you are not familiar with chastity cages, they are devices that look like miniature cages. They are meant to be slipped over a man’s penis and locked into place with the help of a small lock and key. The key is turned over to someone who has been designated as a Key Holder. This is the person who decides when the cage can be unlocked and the man can come out and play, so to speak.

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These days, male chastity cages have taken on a new use. They are now used just for fun and games. That means that the cages are a part of some role playing or other type of sex play between couples. The man has the cage locked around his penis and is made to experience self-denial until his designated Key Holder says that he can be unlocked. Usually, this does not take place until after the Key Holder is full satisfied and is ready to allow the man to gain some sexual pleasure and release of his own. That is what the game is meant to accomplish.

Male chastity cages can be a lot of fun for couples whether they are going to have a night or weekend of fun or if they are ready to commit to the long haul of a chastity lifestyle. In fact, once some couples indulge in a little play with these cages, many of them decide to make it a way of life. There are some men who are just cut out to lead a life of chastity because they no longer have to make decisions in every part of their lives. You may want to keep these cages in mind if you and your partner are on the lookout for something just a little bit different and exciting.

Adjusting to 24 Hour Male Chastity Cages

 

One of the toughest things to grow accustomed to when a man first enters chastity training is wearing male chastity cages 24 hours a day 7 days a week. While it is required that these cages are worn for a significant amount of time, you might get lucky and have a professional trainer who will work with you on this. When it comes to locking a foreign object around your cock, there are going to be some issues in the beginning. The reason for that is you just are not used to having something in that part of your body all the time even when it is the correct size for you. It just will not feel “right.” In fact, this is sort of along the lines of getting used to wearing a thong. Not everyone takes to that little strip of material that will reside between their ass cheeks all day long.

On the other hand, most men who wear male chastity cages all the time have stated that it was not really all that difficult to get used to, even in the beginning. While they certainly did notice that there was something encasing their penises, it did not seem to be a painful experience for them. Actually, some of the men said that the little bit of discomfort that they experienced in the beginning felt a little pleasurable. Of course, these are men that are sort of into pain and discomfort. The point is that most men survive the initial discomfort and eventually do not notice the cages at all unless they begin to get random erections.

Speaking of random erections, the main purpose of male chastity cages is to learn how to control them. These cages fit over the penis to keep those erections at bay that the men have not received permission to have. When the fit of the cages is correct, there will only be enough discomfort to get the point across that an erection is happening that is not supposed to be. A cage that is too small might cause some injuries while a cage that is too big will probably just fall off of the penis. The main thing that you want to remember while struggling through the first week or so of wearing your first cage is that it does serve a purpose and will not be uncomfortable forever.

Public Male Chastity Cages in Public

 

I love wearing male chastity cages but my boss thinks I have lost my mind somehow. He doesn’t know that I have a cage on under my clothes although he has seen me sitting differently because of it. At first, he didn’t say anything to me and just let it go. Recently, though, he has been making comments about the way I have been sitting in business meetings. I want to tell him that you can only find so many comfortable positions when your cock is locked inside a small cage, but I don’t think that will go over all that well with him.

Being able to wear male chastity cages in public is something that I have always enjoyed. It is like bringing a whole new high to this wonderful fetish of mine. I don’t think I could walk around in nothing except my cage in public. On the other hand, having it on under my clothes is almost like the same thing in my mind. I am strutting around with a cage on my cock and, if someone actually looked hard enough, they could probably tell that. It’s almost like I am getting away with something very kinky in front of complete strangers somehow.

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I will admit that when I started wearing male chastity cages I wasn’t too sure about taking them out in public. I was afraid that someone would find out and start teasing me for some reason. But once I finally gained enough courage to try it out, I saw that no one even paid any attention to my crotch. I can go just about anywhere I want with my cage in place and people just look at me and smile. I know they wouldn’t be smiling if they knew what was going on under my pants, but what they don’t know isn’t going to hurt me at all. I can just smile at my secret.

The Difficulty with Male Chastity Cages

 

Using male chastity cages can be quite difficult for some guys out there. I know this because I am an ER nurse and I have seen what some guys have tried. After all, there are warning labels on things like hair dryers for a reason. Being a male nurse that wears a chastity cage makes things a little easier when these guys come in, I think. I can understand the issues they are going through since I rarely tell anyone that I am wearing a cage. I can understand why going to the ER would be the last thing they wanted to do in a situation like that.

Thankfully, there are a lot of guys that can handle wearing male chastity cages just fine. They never end up in the hospital and they don’t have to tell people around them that they are wearing one. They can live their life fully knowing that they are in complete control of their life at all times. That is the main reason that I started wearing a cage. I was tired of having erections for no reason at all and getting an erection while wearing scrubs is not an easy thing to hide.

I have met a lot of well-meaning men in the ER that have made simple mistakes with their male chastity cages. They usually end up getting one that is a bit too small for them and they still try to lock it in place. Unless you know what you are doing, you probably shouldn’t get one that is too small for you. Speaking from experience, this is something that you really need to pay attention to. I won’t go into detail about what happens to these guys, but I will tell you that it isn’t pretty and they are out a decent bit of money as the cage usually has to be cut off and thrown away. Then, there’s the hospital bill combined with humiliation. That is just not pretty.

 

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