The Necessity of Male Chastity Cages

 

People who are not familiar with male chastity cages are always quite puzzled the first time they are presented to these novices. It is also a bit unsettling to them because they really do not comprehend the purpose of these cages. Of course, these are also people who are considered to be vanilla and cannot imagine doing such things as practicing something like chastity. There is a chance that once you have explained the concept of chastity, however, you will be able to cause some interest in that particular lifestyle to someone who has never even known it existed. Just think; you would be responsible for changing someone’s life.

You will need to be able to explain why the male chastity cages are needed. These cages are small and made specifically to fit over a man’s penis. They also have a small lock on them that come with keys. Once the cages have been placed over the penis and locked in place, the key is turned over to the dominant person in the relationship. This person is called a Key Holder and makes all of the decisions as to when the cage will be removed as these cages are meant to control those pesky random erections that lead to casual encounters. When you are wearing your cage, you do not have to worry about getting yourself into any sticky situations.

Your Key Holder, whoever that might be, find male chastity cages very useful and necessary when they are training their submissive to behave and do what he is told. Training is much easier when chastity cages are on hand because it will keep the submissive from giving into temptation. Now, while these cages are truly necessary for the submissive to learn his role successfully, there will be times when you are allowed to remove them. Obviously, you do not want to end up with an infection of some sort so it need to be removed for cleansing and sanitation. Of course, you will be watched closely by your Key Holder to make sure that you do not take advantage of the situation, but there is always the chance that you can receive a reward if you are well behaved enough.

Male Chastity Cages for a small penis

Male Chastity Cages for a small penis

Let’s just come out and say it. If there are some guys with average sizes penises and some guys with large cocks there are many more men with small and even tiny penises. I’m sorry if you are one of the un-lucky men with a tiny penis I completely understand the situation because I am in the same boat. My penis fully erect i9s just shy of three inches and flaccid it is so small it is barely recognizable as a penis. I have been told and I have seen pictures of female body builders that are endowed with larger clits then my flaccid penis. Did I forget to mention that guys with tiny penises myself included are even jealous of men with small cocks forget about average to large because that size is so off the radar for men like us. All is not lost so don’t be completely down. My sex life is actually fun and exciting; I have embraced my small penis. I have a girlfriend that loves it though she does get a whole lot of pleasure humiliating me and my small cock something I have learned to enjoy. I started wearing male chastity cages a few years ago and now have a collection of over twenty different cages. When my girlfriend started ordering male chastity cages for me it was difficult to find ones small enough to fit but now there are companies that have entire departments of cages for small and tiny cocks. Two of my favorites are the Male chastity division at www.koalaswim.com and www.malechastitystore.com but have great selections. At the start I would wear a cock cage for up to one week at a time and not be allowed to masturbate or have sex in any form what so ever. Seems like torture but after wearing it for that period of time the sex we had was so awesome it was hard to put into words but by far the best sex of my life.

Male Chastity Cages are a Great Training Tool

 

Male chastity cages are well-known in certain circles and very often used in the practice of chastity. These are miniature little cages that come with a tiny lock and key. They are slipped over a man’s penis and locked into place. The Key Holder takes charge of the key to the cage so that it only comes off when she or he decides that it should. Of course, the cage has to come off frequently for cleaning and to fight off any infections. The only other times that the cage is removed is when the submissive has earned a reward that will lead to sexual release. The rest of the time, there is no type of sexual release. In fact, if a caged penis tries to become erect, it will be a rather unpleasant experience. Therefore, the urge will become less frequent.

That is one of the reasons that male chastity cages are great when it comes to use as a training tool. When the size is right, the cages do what they are supposed to do. On the other hand, if the size is too small, you run the risk of doing some rather risky damage to your penis. Then, there are the sizes that are too large. You may as well not even be wearing one because your penis can easily become erect without anything there to prevent it. So, what is the point? That is why the size of the cages are very important. You have to be invested in using the correct equipment when you are going through chastity training.

If you are new to the world of domination and submissive, it might not make a lot of sense that the male chastity cages will need to be just the right size to fit over your penis. When used correctly, you will become the perfect submissive for your Key Holder and will allowed to be out of your cage more often. This means that if you please your partner one hundred percent of the time, you will never be punished unless you beg for it. You will be allowed more and more privileges that will lead to your own sexual release, but only after your dominant partner has been full pleased.

Male Chastity Cages can be Fun

Male Chastity Cages can be Fun

Male chastity cages typically play a large role in the chastity lifestyle but what a lot of people are not aware of is that these cages can be used to have a lot of fun through playing sexual games. Granted, the majority of couples in these types of relationships use cages as a part of daily life. There is another way to utilize them, too. They can be simply a part of some weekend fun with partners switching roles. There is nothing more fun than keeping an open mind with these cages because you can make up all kinds of games with them. Of course, they are made for males because they enclose the penis sort of like a little bird in a cage.

Sometimes male chastity cages are put in place just to challenge a man. His Key Holder may lock his partner into the cage for the weekend and take him out to places with enticing people that will tempt him. The cage will cause lots of problems with that because he won’t have the key. That will keep him from being sneaky and slipping off with someone for a quickie. The Key Holder will tease the partner the entire time they are out. Then when they get home, the submissive should be pretty hot and ready for some serious play. That is when the fun begins.

To make things really teasing, the Key Holders can be ultra-sexy while making some exotic dance moves. Maybe there will be sexy clothes involved. The submissives will be desperate to have their male chastity cages removed because they will need release badly. Teasing is much more fun, though, because when release finally is allowed; it will be so much sweeter. He might even be in the mood to go all night after being made to wait for so long.

 

The Benefits of Wearing Male Chastity Cages

 

Quite possibly some of the most confusing sex toys around are male chastity cages. The people who understand these items are typically the ones who use them either non-frequently or frequently. Most of the time, the cages are used in a relationship where there is a submissive partner and a dominant one. The dominant partner has control of the key that unlocks the cage once it is placed around the penis. This is done so that the submissive does not get any special privileges or undeserved rewards by being able to gain sexual release. His dominant partner is the one who is in charge of making those decisions.

While there are many benefits of wearing male chastity cages, one of those at the top of the list is the submissive will not be able to fool around and enjoy some one night stands. Yes, that means that the cages are worn all the time unless the Key Holder sees that there is a reason to remove it. One of those reasons, of course, have something to do with good health. If the cage and penis are not cleansed properly and often enough, those are definite breeding grounds for infection. I am quite sure that the submissive would not enjoy that sort of infection. That is why there are rules to follow.

Another benefit of wearing male chastity cages is learning the lesson of not being selfish and self-centered. When you are wearing a chastity cage, it is almost a definite thing that your dominant partner will be pleased as many times as he or she wants before you will be allowed to remove that cage and gain some happiness for yourself. That is why you will want to work your hardest to please your Key Holder. You will get your own reward in the end, the harder you work and the happier that you make your dominant partner, the better your own reward will be.

Male Chastity Training is Essential

 

Most people believe that male chastity training is something that can be undergone or not and that it does not really have to be done for a successful relationship. That is actually not exactly true. Being born chaste is not something that happens to a man. It is something that is developed by many things such as environment, temperament and emotions. It typically is something that is learned through life experiences, some beginning even as a small child. Events that occur to a man throughout his life will always decide what sort of person he is going to be as an adult. Many men are lead in the direction of becoming chaste. This means they grow into submissive adults.

Now, on the other hand, there may be men who simply are born with a submissive gene. These men will easily become chaste as they mature but it does not matter how they get to that point. Male chastity training can only make things easier and more pleasant for these men which is the main reason to indulge in some training. Probably the most benefit that can be gained by training is that men can then enter into a chaste relationship knowing what to expect. Oddly enough, men who do not know what is going to happen once they are in the relationships do not feel that they need any training. The majority of the time these guys find out that they could not have been more wrong.

The good news is that it is never too late to turn things around in your life and find someone you resonate with to conduct some male chastity training for you. Taking this training will certainly not hurt you in any way. It is also a way to decide if this is truly the life for you or if you should perhaps look in another direction. A lot of men find that they do not want to live that way all the time. They choose to live chastely only part of the time, like on the weekends or holidays. The rest of the time, they live what is considered to be a “normal” lifestyle. So they get to have the best of both worlds.

Sneaky Girls and Male Chastity Cages

 

I have tried a lot of weird things in my life but nothing quite as strange as wearing these male chastity cages that have become so popular lately. Now I should probably start out by saying that I wasn’t so much deciding to wear it as I was fooled into trying one on and then left with it. You see I have some female friends that are rather funny at times and they love playing practical jokes. Well it turns out that one night about six months ago I was the target of one of these well thought out jokes but it turns out that I actually liked it a little too much.

I learned a valuable lesson about myself that night. Actually it was more than just one lesson that I learned after I figured out that I really did enjoy wearing male chastity cages. But the first and probably most important thing I learned was not to drink too much around these girls because bad things will eventually happen. Once I passed out they slapped a cage on me and hid the key. Then they let me walk around all day trying to figure out how I got into the damn thing and they kept saying I was so drunk that I didn’t remember putting it on myself.

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After I learned that they put me into one of these male chastity cages they wouldn’t give me the key to get back out of it. They kept telling me that I had to be punished for the way I was acting and then they would laugh and walk away. After the third or maybe fourth day I stopped asking them for it and started enjoying the feeling of having it on. A month later they gave me the key but I put it up for another week before actually taking the cage off. I told them I threw it away but I was actually wearing it while I was telling them that so I guess you could say that their cruel little joke backfired on them in a way.

Only Freaks Wear Male Chastity Cages

 

Once you have tried male chastity cages you will never think the same way about your life again. I used to think that any guy that put a cage on like this was a total freak. I thought that there must be something wrong with the guys to willing lock their cocks up inside of some weird little cage and that was not something I was ever going to do. I put it out of my mind and went on with my life without thinking about anything like that and I was very happy.

Move forward about ten years and I find myself wearing men’s chastity cages every day. After telling myself that I would never wear anything like this and then suddenly finding out that this is exactly what was missing in my life makes me sound like the freak now. You see I had an ex that decided it would be fun to get me drunk and put me into one of these cages as a joke. I didn’t exactly find it all that funny when I woke up though and there was definitely hell to pay for what I was put into. That is actually the reason that we broke up and I have no regrets over that move.

The strange thing is that after a few months without the male chastity cages I found myself constantly thinking about what it was like while I was wearing it. Now I wasn’t happy at all but I admit that it felt a little good to have that cage in place. So I decided to buy one for myself and give it a shot willingly. I think giving myself permission to try something like this out was the most important aspect of this as I didn’t feel like I was locked in a cage. Waking up and having one in place just made me feel like I had lost all control of the situation and that wasn’t something I ever wanted to go through again. Thankfully I have grown accustomed to it and I now know that guys wearing these cages aren’t all freaks, although a few of them might be but in a very good way.

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Don’t Miss Out on Male Chastity Cages

 

If you aren’t wearing male chastity cages then you have no idea what you are missing out on. That is the exact same thing that I was told about three years ago and for some reason it stuck with me. I was trying my best to ignore it but something in the back of my mind kept telling me that I needed to find out what I was actually missing in my life because apparently it was important. It only took me four months before I deciding to look for my own cage and I am glad that I did now.

Thinking that I was missing out on something is what got me interested in wearing my first male chastity cages but finding out what it was that I was actually missing is what made me continue to wear them. I had no idea what it was going to be like strapping one of those cages in place but once I did I completely understand what that person had told me only a few months earlier. I indeed was missing out on something and I could feel it almost immediately from the time I locked that cage in place.

I’m not going to sit here and tell you what it was that I was missing out on because I want you to go out and find your own male chastity cages. I want you to lock one in place and see for yourself that this missing aspect of your life will finally be found. I have a feeling that it will be different for every guy that puts one on but somehow we all know what it will turn out to be. It’s a very strange sensation at first but I can tell you that once you put it on you will feel that your life is finally complete and that is what I was happy about the most.

Deciding to Wear Male Chastity Cages

 

One of the best decisions I have ever made was the one where I started wearing male chastity cages. This is something that I had wanted to do for a very long time even though I was not exactly sure what it was until I saw my first cage. I knew that I needed something to manage my erections but I was not exactly sure how I should do that. As soon as I saw that first cage, though, I knew that it was what I had been looking for and that I had to buy it immediately.

Now I was not exactly sure how I was supposed to wear one of these male chastity cages, but I knew that I had to at least try. There was something about the design that called to my soul and I knew if I did not try, then I would regret it for the rest of my life. So I went ahead and bought one to see if I could actually get the thing on and what it would do for me. I was surprised at how easy it was for me to get it on and how great it felt once I locked it in place. I truly was not expecting the ease that I felt in the cage for the first time, but I was thankful that I did.

There might be some guys in the world that are interested in wearing male chastity cages but, like me, they are not sure if they can get along with them all that well. I will tell you that it did not take but five minutes before I was comfortable in my cage although I am sure that is not exactly normal for everyone. Some guys might want to take some time to get used to their cages while others who are like me can simply lock it in and head on out the door, although I do suggest putting pants on first. Those cages are great for some things but not so much for covering things in public.