Male Chastity Cages
When I first started wearing male chastity cages, I was doing it to make my partner happy. We were having some issues in the bedroom and they wanted to spice things up a bit by having me lock my cock up inside a small cage. Apparently, that was going to be the only way of keeping the relationship fresh, to which I was npt all that sure if I wanted to keep it that way anymore. But you do what you can to make your partner happy in the hopes that things might change in the long run. Naturally nothing changed and my partner soon grew tired and left anyway.
The only reason I am relaying this information is that while I was trying to save the relationship by wearing male chastity cages, I ended up continuing to wear them because I felt something about them was truly needed in my life. It is almost like I came to the realization that it was not the relationship that I needed, but the cage itself is what had been missing in my life. I know that sounds rather weird for anyone who has not tried wearing one of these devices in the past, but that is pretty much what it felt like. I was actually happier when the partner left than when I took my cage off for the first time, and that should tell you something.
I am not saying that you have to give up your relationship in order to feel happy about wearing male chastity cages, though. I think you could be perfectly fine wearing one with a partner that was worth the effort involved in living this kind of a lifestyle, if your partner is not willing to put the same amount of effort in, then you might want to rethink who you are with rather than what kind of device you bring into the bedroom. Overall, wearing a chastity device is all about taking back a bit of control for yourself and redirecting the appropriate amount of attention to the person you are with. If you can’t find happiness in giving that person attention, then you might want to take your cage and move on with your life.