For many men who enter the chaste community and lifestyle, male chastity cages are a large part of the way that these men live. Not all use these little cages in order to be kept in line, but a large number of them do. An important thing to ask yourself is whether or not you are ready for these cages to be placed around your penis. Some men love them and consider these cages to be a very important part of their training as well as insuring that they behave and do as they are commanded by their dominant partner. There are small locks along with tiny keys that accompany these cages. The key is turned over to the Key Holder or dominant partner so that the men do not remove the cages at will.
Male chastity cages are in place on men in the chaste community in order to keep them from attaining random erections. Those erections tend to get plenty of men in trouble all the time. Therefore, when a man is wearing one of these cages, it does not matter whether or not his penis is trying to grow. The little bars on the cage will prevent this erection from happening by digging into the growing penis. The discomfort that is brought about by those little bars tend to discourage the penis from getting hard. Most of the time, the urge to even want to have an erection is taken away by these cages.
Many men fear male chastity cages even though they have no real reason to do so. These are usually the guys who are afraid to give up control of their sexual decisions. They know that once those cages are encircling their penises, all bets are off. The only way that they will be having erections of their own choosing is if the cage happens to be too big for their penises. Then those erections can happen at will and even be satisfied in spite of the cage. If you happen to be one of those men who fear chastity cages, then you most likely are not ready to wear one or ready to enter the chastity life. When you develop the complete trust that you need to be chaste, then you will be ready to wear a chastity cage.
One of the great things about wearing male chastity cages is the feeling of being in control all the time. But there are moments in my life when I do not want to feel like I am in control. I want to feel like I have given control to someone else and that means I have to find someone to entrust with my cage key. The funny thing is that I will usually give it to someone who does not know what it is. I do not want them to think I am weird for wearing a cage, but I want the excitement of handing them a key and telling them to hide it from me.
Most of the time they think it is funny but I am sure that if they knew it was for my male chastity cages; they would probably not want anything to do with it. I like having this kind of secret from them even if it means I cannot get my key back any time soon. I actually gave it to a co-worker and they went to China for three weeks on a business trip. I had no idea how to contact them. That was pretty interesting seeing as how I was not sure how long they would actually be gone for that trip.
Other times, I will give it to a neighbor or something just to see how long I can wear my male chastity cages before asking for the key back. I have even been known to lock it up in a safe deposit box at the bank downtown just so I was not enticed to use it. Sometimes, you have to play these little games when you are all by yourself. I have even thought about mailing the key to friends and family in other states with a note telling them to mail the key back in a month. I think that would be really interesting. Of course, that might also backfire on me as they might feel that that I have totally lost my mind.
One of the biggest questions that is asked about male chastity cages is which one is the best to get. It is also one of the most difficult answers to find. The reason for this is because penises are quite individual even though there are some women in the world who tend to say that penises are all alike. They are not, however. In fact, penises are quite different from each other. The differences show more when the penis is flaccid. Chastity cages are meant to fit around flaccid penises. They are also meant to keep away erections and, as a result, stop orgasms. There are some men who think they need a chastity cage that will house an erection but that could not be further from the truth. Once that cage is locked around your penis, erections are no longer a part of your life.
There are several important things that the best male chastity cages need to meet. To begin with, it must be comfortable as you will need to be able to wear it 24 hours every 7 without experiencing pain and/or irritation. It should keep you from waking up in the middle of the night trying to get an erection because it should be keeping your penis from growing. Your cage should also keep you from masturbating. Now, it is possible to attain an orgasm without having a hard penis and, with some practice, most men can manage to come by using a very powerful vibrator even when wearing a chastity cage. However, since you are locked up as a part of enforced chastity, you should not be trying to have an orgasm.
Something else that good male chastity cages should be is secure enough to prevent those random erections. None of the cages are 100 percent escape proof and some men can get their penises out if they really work at it. The thing is that if you are really committed to your Key Holder, the cage does not have to be escape proof because you will not even be tempted to masturbate without permission. In addition, the cage must be easy to clean. Lots of cages do not fully meet this requirement so you need to be careful. All you really need is a shower with a shower massager to keep your cage clean. Just keep in mind that there really is no perfect cage and buy yours accordingly.