When men turn to a chaste life, one of the first things that they get are male chastity cages. The reason for this is because they are a mainstay for a successful chastity experience. They keep men from succumbing to those pesky random erections that always seem to keep popping up no matter how determined men are to keep them away. These miniature replicas of cages made to be locked around a man’s penis. The key is then turned over to someone who acts as the Key Holder so that the man will not give into temptation and unlock his cage for an experience that is not approved. This is the way to keep him in line.
Sorry no models today just me being a sissy wearing a fem style vagina swimsuit by Koalaswim
Due to the importance of the function of male chastity cages, they are built for endurance. Typically, these cages are constructed of a strong metal of some sort so that they will not come apart easily or at all when put under stress. You might be thinking at this point that you would never do anything like try to pry that cage off of your penis for any reason. You may think that you will be a good boy and follow all the rules of the chastity lifestyle; and that may be what you believe. The problem is that you are thinking that while your penis is not aroused. But just wait until a situation arises that causes your penis to also rise.
The keys that fit these all-important male chastity cages will keep them locked until you have the permission of your Key Holder to give your penis a break. The reason that keys are all you need to make sure that you behave is that the materials that they are made from are strong enough to keep you from cheating by trying to simply rip it apart to get it off of your penis. In the end, you will be quite relieved that they are so strong because you will feel quite guilty that you were so disobedient.
Something that lots of men still have trouble with is in getting a correct size for their male chastity cages. In the process, they end up with a cage that is either too small or too large and neither of those are good options because they simply will not work. However, this does not have to be a stressful process. There are ways to figure out exactly how large or small your cage needs to be in order to provide the most effective fit for your penis; don’t worry because none of them involve a lot of knowledge.
First of all, when figuring out the correct size of male chastity cages, you will need to measure your penis when it is in a flaccid state. That is how the length of your device is determined. You can measure from the top of your penis or the bottom of it. Take care that you don’t press the ruler into the base of your penis or your measurements will be wrong. This can make your cage longer than it needs to be. It is recommended that the top of your penis is in touch with the front of the cage. Remember, also, that a cage fitting too tightly will get uncomfortable if you get aroused. While all men vary, it is a good policy to have cage rings not narrower than 1/8th of an inch than the width of your erect penis.
The length of your male chastity cages should be a little shorter than the length of your flaccid penis. The reason for this is that the gap and base ring use space. An easy way to remember how to do this correctly is to say that the flaccid penis length is equal to the overall cage length. You can now see that this is not a difficult process at all. Just get out your ruler or tape measure and get started. The quicker you do the faster you can get your cages!
If you are new to the whole idea of chastity, then you are probably not all that familiar with male chastity cages. These nifty little devices are one of the first things that you need to become acquainted with as they are the things that will turn you into an entirely new man by the end of the training process. Cages are usually the first device that men try out when they decide to take chastity for a spin. They are easy to understand and to use. In addition, they are very effective for something so basic. Chastity cages are a very simple idea that came from the female chastity belts that were developed centuries ago. They were meant for maidens to wear while their knights went off to fight wars. It was meant to keep them from giving into temptation while their men were gone.
Obviously, male chastity cages needed to be fashioned in a different manner than those belts that women used to wear. The cages are made to fit right over a man’s penis and then, it is locked into place. The tiny bars on these cages prohibit the penis from having a random erection or one that is not allowed. Once the penis begins to stiffen and become erect, the bars start to dig into the hardening flesh. This will deter any further rising to whatever occasion was providing the excitement. The key to these cages are given to a trusted individual for safe keeping and to keep men from giving into the temptation of unlocking it and having a bit of fun.
Male chastity cages are, however, only as effective as their correct fit. Cages that are too small carry the risk of hurting you pretty badly. Certainly, you will not be able to get an erection with those little bars pressing into your penis, but these cages might turn you into a new man or a eunuch. Cages that are too large for you may as well not be worn at all because your penis will be able to become erect any time it pleases. To become the kind of man that you can be proud of, be sure that your cage fits you perfectly.
Members of the chastity community are quite familiar with male chastity cages and what they are supposed to accomplish for the men that are wearing them. If you happen to be one of those people that are not in the know on how these cages operate, the explanation is actually rather simple. The chastity cages are worn over the mens penises. This is meant to keep away those pesky random and inappropriate erections. You see, the cages are locked in place over the penises and the keys are turned over to someone known as the Key Holder. The only time that the men are allowed to unlock their cages is when they have been very good boys and have behaved themselves.
Another thing that male chastity cages accomplish is teaching men in how to control their speed of orgasms. A huge percentage of men have what is known as a quick trigger when it comes to reaching an orgasm. Many guys try such things as cream or spray that will “numb” their penises to a degree, which will cut back on the sensitivity. This allows them to control their orgasms to a degree. The only problem about this is that sometimes it is too numb and their erections may be only semi-hard. That can be a bit discouraging for both partners.
That is why male chastity cages are so much better. When men cannot get erections within those little cages, they are learning how to make their own decisions as to the timing. In other words, when they have had enough training while wearing the cages, they will be able to decide when and where they are going to get erections. This will also help them to control when their orgasms will occur. It becomes a lot more fun for the men as well as their partners once full control is accomplished. It seems as if it might be worth it to endure the mild discomfort of these cages for a little while when there is so much to be gained in the end.
A lot of male chastity cages on the market are different versions of the same old design. There is nothing wrong with that, mind you; I like the variety that is up for offer, if nothing else. But there are some designs that I notice have gone far beyond what an ordinary chastity device was meant to be. I think the reason behind these little innovations is the fact that more and more guys are looking to get involved in chastity, for whatever reasons. When you have more guys looking for something different, there becomes a surge in creativity and that surge is happening at just the right time for me.
I have been wearing the same basic male chastity devices for a long time now and being able to find something new to try has been great. I no longer feel that I am just a guy in a cage anymore. Instead, I feel like a guy that has something to prove to himself and the world in general. There aren’t too many things out there that give me that kind of feeling anymore, but I can always count on the latest in chastity designs.
Even if you are new to male chastity cages, you will be able to find something that you will enjoy playing with. Of course you have to understand that just because they might be different colors it doesn’t necessarily mean that it is an altogether different design. Once you figure that little trick out, you can breeze through those sites online and pick out the designs that you truly want to try. Then you can worry about which colors you feel like wearing. I just can’t wait to see what the next generation of chastity devices has in store for guys all over the world. I am sure that I will be more than happy to try as many of them out as I possibly can.
Most of the male chastity cages that I have tried over the years are rather common designs meant to give me control without showing everyone around me that I have a metal cage over my cock. I like the way the lower profile cages fit, especially when I wear them to work or out for a night on the town. However, there are some designs that are a bit more aggressive in nature that I have tried at home that are quite interesting. I would highly recommend using them if you haven’t tried them already.
If you are getting into male chastity cages for the first time, I suggest that you stay away from the hardcore versions that are available for a while, though. Stick with the ones that are easy for you to get comfortable in before you end up getting into something that bores you after only a short amount of time. I almost lost interest in wearing these cages when I tried out my first extreme model so I know what I am talking about. It was so difficult to keep hidden and enjoy out in public that I almost ended my tryst with male chastity right there and then.
The main thing you have to understand is that these male chastity cages you are looking at are for you to enjoy. I know it seems difficult to enjoy something that you are using to lock your cock into and keep it from getting an erection, but there is plenty of pleasure you can gain from doing just that. You aren’t wearing this to impress anyone and, even if you were, it is still your right to choose the designs you are going to wear. Just make sure you are ready for whatever design you pick out and always remember that you are going to be the one that is going to end up being locked inside of it.
One of the rules to wearing male chastity cages is that the keys are turned over to someone who has been designated as the Key Holder. This person can be a Mistress, Master or a partner. The point is that the men wearing the cages are usually not allowed to keep control of their keys. Typically, it is because they will be sorely tempted to unlock the cage when it becomes uncomfortable or they simply want to be able to get an erection. However, that’s the whole point of these devices; to keep away those random erections. How effective would they be if the men were allowed to be in charge of the keys? Most likely, not very.
Nothing works better than male chastity cages when it comes to keep those pesky erections at bay but that is only true when someone else is in charge of holding the key. On the other hand, there are some situations that might just require the man wearing the cage to also be in charge of the key to it. Men who do not have a partner who can be the Key Holder or are not involved with a Mistress or Master are going to be forced to find other solutions to this dilemma. Many of the men in this group manage to fight off the urge to unlock their cages at random and they do it rather easily.
If you happen to be a part of the men that have no one to hold the keys to their male chastity cages, you will have to learn restraint and self-discipline. Obviously, you will have to be your own Key Holder and you can do just that. There are safes that you can buy that can be set on a timer which allows you to stay on a schedule of sorts as to when your cage can be released. These work out quite nicely unless you can develop the will to control whipping out that key anytime you want. That is also true if you really want the cage to do its job.
A key part of becoming a member of the chastity community is in the selection of the best male chastity cages for you. While it really isn’t a complicated process, it can be rather frustrating when it comes to deciding exactly what cage to begin with as well as which one to move forward with after that. Once you begin shopping around, you will quickly see that there are quite a few different cages to choose from and many of them will seem to be perfect for you. On the other hand, there will also be plenty of cages that you might just cringe at the thought of using. The most difficult part of it all might just be reconciling your desires with what will work best for you.
One of the most popular styles of male chastity cages involves a miniature cage design that slips right over your penis and is then locked in place. The size of the cages is very important when it comes to getting it right. A cage that turns out to be too small will hurt you in ways best not even thought about. Of course, a cage that is too big is going to be a waste of money because it will simply fall off of your penis and it will do nothing to deter an unwanted or random erection. This is true even if you choose the miniature cage design.
Other popular types of male chastity cages include a sheath style that fits like a sleeve over your penis. Some of these designs have little spikes built into the inside that go a long way to discouraging an erection that is not supposed to be happening. Granted, these are not exactly cages, but they have been known to be highly effective in helping you control when you get an erection. When you think about it, having the sensation of little needle like spikes digging into your penis the harder it gets will make it go down in an instant. Unless, of course, you happen to like the feeling of intense pain. In that case, you will probably want to return to the cage design.
I knew nothing about male chastity cages until I hooked up with my current boyfriend. In fact, I wasn’t even aware of most of the fetishes and different lifestyles that are out there these days until the two of us met. He has really opened my eyes to the world around me and I am happier in my life because of it. Although, when he first told me about wearing one of these cages, I thought he was a nut job. Who in his right mind would force his cock into a small cage to refrain from getting an erection for long periods of time anyway?
As it turns out using these male chastity cages has actually brought our relationship even closer together than you would ever think. I was under the impression that not getting an erection would ruin any kind of sexual aspects of our relationship, but he has shown me that that isn’t true. If anything, our sex life is much more robust than it would have been if he wasn’t wearing one of those cages. At least it has been better than any other relationship I have ever been in, and that is saying a lot.
We have been together for a few years now and I don’t think I could go back to living my life before male chastity cages were brought into it. The thought of living such a life seems like a dream to me that I had finally woke up from and am happy for it. Although I am not the one wearing the cage, I still think that this has a great deal of promise for any couple that might be interested. My boyfriend has repeatedly tried to get me into one of his cages, but I am not ready for something like that although I am sure that one day I will give it a shot just to see what it is all about. After all, it’s only fair to give him a chance at being on the other end of things.